Monday, March 16, 2026

Answering personal questions












Write down 5 questions / prompts you could ask someone about their childhood.

E.g. Tell me about a classmate you used to play with.

How long did it take you to learn to read?

 

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Write down 5 questions you would like someone to ask you about yourself. They can be about anything at all. Something you know about, or simply enjoy talking about…

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Skill - openers, reaction phrases

 

Before answering a question, try beginning with an opener or reaction phrase like these:


Great question.

This questions is quite a tricky one to answer.

I was wondering if you'd ask me that.

I like this question.

Oh well, I guess...

Well obviously,

Hmmm. Let me think a bit.

Wow! Good question.

Okay, let's see.

This my favourite topic.

Interesting question.

Thanks for asking.

In my case that's a bit complicated.

Oh dear - I was hoping you wouldn't ask that.

I'm glad you asked.

Sorry, but could you repeat that?

It's a long story, but the short answer is...

The simple answer is...

Well as you might already suspect...


 

How do these openers make the person asking the questions feel?


Now try answering some questions about family and try always beginning with an opener.


Repeat this idea using different personal topics:

Friendship

Childhood

Travel

Leisure time

Relationships

Feelings

School

Hobbies

Before listen, guess what some of the questions were:

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9
10

Daniel Radcliffe Answers the Web's Most Searched Questions

Did Daniel use opener or reaction phrases?


Write down a question you would like someone to ask you (in front of everyone) today.


Example


Why do you look so happy today?


Pass the question to the person next to you. Have them ask you this question in front of the whole class.

Use an opener, and respond in detail to the question.




The Senses








Think of a taste. Any taste. What taste comes into your mind?














Think of a sound. Any sound. What sound is it?











Think of a sight. Any sight. What is it?










Think of a smell. Any smell. What is it?













Think of a texture or surface you are touching. What is it?










Now discuss with others.









What are your favourite....






Tastes                Smells                Things to touch                 Sights                      Sounds


















Now think about the following things and decide which sense they most strongly bring to mind....













1. flowers

Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


What is the most beautiful flower?



















2. coins


Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


What do coins taste like?












3. garden


Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


Do you have a garden back at home?
does it have...
walls    a fountain   a pond    birds   tall trees     grapes    flowers    a barbeque   statues
bricks    a vine     bushes     grass     insects    a compost bin       outdoor chairs



 











4. cheese


Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


Is cheese popular in your country? What do you eat cheese with?












5. snakes


Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch



Have you ever see a real snake in the wild? (not at the zoo)
Have you ever touched a living snake? What did it feel like?










6. fire


Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


Do you know how to light a campfire?
What can you cook in / on a fire?
What does hair smell like when it catches fire?













7. rain


Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch



How often does it rain in your country?
Do you like rain?
Have you ever had to walk home in the rain with no raincoat or umbrella? Where? When?









8. keys


Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


How often do you lose your keys? 
How many hours of your life have you wasted looking for keys?








9. cigarette


Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


Do you smoke?
Do / did your parents smoke?








10. Xmas tree


Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


Does you family ever have a real Xmas tree for Xmas?
Do you give gifts at Xmas in your family?
What did you get last Xmas?










11. storm



Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


Do you enjoy storms?










12. sand



Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


What does sand taste like?
Can sand can be annoying?
What can sand be used for?






13. bread



Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


What is your favourite kind of bread?
Could you live without bread?

bagels, baguette, naan, roti, hamburger buns, dark bread, other?



14. shower



Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


How long are your showers?
Is there a nice shower where you're currently living?





15. dogs



Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch

What animal is most similar to a dog?
What's a good name for a dog?
What kind of dog is your personality like?



16. coffee


Sight
Sound
Smell
Taste
Touch


How do you like to have your coffee?
Is coffee bad for you?





Image result for nose







Do you have a good sense of smell?















What are some of your favourite smells?












Think of three natural smells and three artificial smells.








Outside exercise


Outside exercise

 

 

Go out for a walk outside and find 10 different smells. Write them down.

 

  Smell source       adjectives / description   comparison       mark out of 5

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2,

3.

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6.

7.

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Alternatively, divide into groups each concentrating on a different sense.

group1 
smells

group2
sights

group3
sounds

group4
touch









How many words are there for "sweet" in your first  language?
Can you think of any synonyms for "sweet" in English?











What is "umami"?





Dictionary
Definitions from Oxford LanguagesLearn more
umami
noun
  1. a category of taste in food (besides sweet, sour, salt, and bitter), corresponding to the flavour of glutamates, especially monosodium glutamate.




basic taste/smell vocab

sweet 
sour
fragrant
acidic
fumy
smoky
salty
spicy
musty
earthy
metalic
woody
grassy
off
rancid
soapy



In English we also might describe sweet smells and tastes with these words:

try putting appropriate nouns with these

E.g. Tangy + orange juice

Fruity
Caramel
Nutty
Gingery
Floral
Chocolate-y
syrupy
Buttery
Butterscotch
citrus-y
Banana-ry
Aniseed
Liquorish
Malty
Vanilla
Berry
Rich
Biscuity
Minty
Tangy
Tropical
Zingy
Sugary
Cinnamon-y
Honeyish
Milky


We use these adjectives to describe colours...

cool
warm
hot
bright
pale
florescent
dark
deep
light
fiery
mellow
pure
vivid

How do our adjectives for smell differ from our adjectives for colours in English?


We tend to describe tastes and smells by comparing them to similar tastes and smells, whereas with colour we can focus on their degree of intensity. 


But we also compare colours with other things

ocean
forest
lemon
royal
emerald
sapphire
sky
pitch
dirt
fire-engine
battleship
eggshell
snowy



Sunday, March 15, 2026

The Perfectionist Trap



Discuss

 

1. Are you a perfectionist? What kinds of things do you like to be perfect at? 

2. Are you an ambitious person? What are you ambitious about?

3. Are you sometimes hard on yourself? Give an example of how you might be hard on yourself.

4. "One of the greatest obstacles to a good life is the expectation of perfection."

Do you agree?

5. Have you thought a lot about what you really want to be?

In an ideal world, what would be be?

6. Do you feel limited by "reality"?

 

 

Language used:

 

prac______r

someone who practices a learned profession

intre___d

fearless

accl_____ed

publicly praised

be_____th

under

to s____k

cause, stimulate

med______y

the state of being average or unremarkable

p________x

a contradiction or dilemma

to ig______

to set on fire

cong______

existing at birth

ine____tude

incompetence

t____p

something that we can be caught or stuck in

to at_____n

to achieve

cur____ed

carefully selected

d___ft                                         

 a first attempt at a complex piece of work

s____e                                          

mentally healthy

to em____e

to copy, to imitate

a______y

agonizing physical or mental pain

to w____p

to cry

 



Vocabulary Quiz:

24 terms




For notes and later discussion:

We f________ate our ambitions by....
We form our career plans on the b____s of....
We end up the l_____t able to....
Our media ed___s out....
It starts to a_____r as though....
Our p_________n is imbalanced because.....
We should f_____s on....
We need to re______ise the legitimate and necessary....
Allow o_______s to do things quite....

 

 

Language focus: expressive adverbs

 

What do these words mean?  Try to define them in your own words?

 

markedly

imperfectly

absurdly

largely

typically

deeply

actually

primarily

closely

 

Listen for them in the clip and write them in the order you hear them.











Check





typically
deeply
markedly
absurdly
actually
primarily
largely
closely
imperfectly













The Work-Life Balance

Image result for fulfilling career high salary work life balance gif


Discuss the gif







Prelearn vocab:

20 terms and expressions

Watch:

Work-Life Balance

Discuss:

Are you a generalist or a specialist? (Do you like to get really really good at one thing, or be good enough at lots of things?)

Do you know a person who is a specialist?

Match these verb / noun collocations

write
spear
sit
stay
live
plot
expand
drive
go into

in an ice cave
a fish
in a high rise office
an assassination
very fast down Fifth Avenue
a small business
politics
a novel
single

Grammar point: which of these verbs are transitive and which are intransitive?


Multiple choice questions:

1. According to the speaker. a human is less efficient than a sports car because
A) humans have less clear goals than a sports car
B) sports cars are designed for speed
C) humans are not designed well

2. According to the speaker
A) humans should try to limit their goals in order to be more efficient.
B) by limiting our focus, we increase our chances of efficiency
C) optimal efficiency is a general principle in designing machines

3. According ot the speaker, our brains
A) are moderately intelligent
B) tend to generalise
C) are good at many different things

4. According to the speaker, we
A) pay a price for focussing too much on one thing
B) can't be perfect at everything
C) can't be too general in our focus

5. The reason for our mistakes and failures is that
A) variety matters more than perfection
B) our narrow perfection
C) there's a cost to being the human equivalent of a sports car

6. According to the speaker, work-life balance
A) is elusive
B) is worth fighting for
C) is impossible

7. According to the speaker, feeling that life is chaotic
A) is a healthy sign
B) is a bad sign
C) is a sign that your life has gone wrong




This is the Audi R8; it's a highly efficient and compelling car; its engine produces an astonishing 199 kW at 6,500 rpm, and a torque of 330 Nm at 4000 rpm.

Now part of the reason that it's so efficient, and part of what makes us human beings comparatively inefficient, is that this car has only one goal, and that goal is exceptionally clear: it has to go very fast down tarmac roads.

As a general principle, no machine can be optimally efficient at more than one thing.
A robot that has to both climb stairs, and make pancakes will be far less efficient
than two distinct machines, each of which can focus exclusively on a single task.
The more limited the goals, the higher ones chances efficiency.

Now, unlike the Audi sports car, our brains are not designed or evolved to be maximally efficient at any one thing. This amazing cognitive and emotional machine is a profound generalist it comes moderately well equipped for a huge range of possible activities:
to write a novel, spearfish, bring up a child, drive very fast Fifth Avenue, sit in a high-rise office writing reports, lie in a hut in New Guinea, marry, plot an assassination, live in an ice cave, go into politics, stay single, or expand a small business into the Asia market.

Now the price we pay for being generalists is that we'll be less good at any one of the many activities we perform than someone who did only one thing their whole life long.
We might not be the very best at inflating party balloons, the house will be a bit dirty,
we might be a bit late for the meeting, we'll not be perfect, patient, and interesting dinner companions, we'll mess up the public presentation again, someone will probably be better than we are at helping a child to paint.

This might be quite depressing moments, perhaps late at night as we look back across the day, but before we get too sad, we should realize that our less than completely optimal performance is down to one very understandable thing: that we've chosen breadth and variety over total focus and narrow perfection, and that's a very wise choice. Focusing on one thing to the exclusion of all others has its costs as anyone who's ever spoken to an athlete who trains 10 hours a day tends to find out.

There's a cost to being the human equivalent to the sports car.

Unfortunately, our society has set up an absurd idea: that it will be possible to do many things and do them all completely well. That's why we hear so much talk about an elusive thing called: "work-life balance". Perfectly optimal career and a perfectly optimal home life.

This is a mad idea!

Work-life balance is impossible because everything worth fighting for unbalances your life. We're not going to be at once the ideal domestic chef, child carer, and CEO.
If we're strung out across multiple roles, all will suffer, but that's okay.

That you're doing too much and none of it without mistakes isn't a sign that your life has gone wrong, it's a sign of a very wise and understandable position: that you've opted for imperfect variety over flawless focus.

 

 

Multiple choice questions:

 

1. According to the speaker. a human is less efficient than a sports car because

A) humans have less clear goals than a sports car

B) sports cars are designed for speed

C) humans are not designed well

 

2. According to the speaker

A) humans should try to limit their goals in order to be more efficient.

B) by limiting our focus, we increase our chances of efficiency

C) optimal efficiency is a general principle in designing machines

 

3. According ot the speaker, our brains

A) are moderately intelligent

B) tend to generalise

C) are good at many different things

 

4. According to the speaker, we

A) pay a price for focussing too much on one thing

B) can't be perfect at everything

C) can't be too general in our focus

 

5. The reason for our mistakes and failures is that

A) variety matters more than perfection

B) our narrow perfection

C) there's a cost to being the human equivalent of a sports car

 

6. According to the speaker, work-life balance

A) is elusive

B) is worth fighting for

C) is impossible

 

7. According to the speaker, feeling that life is chaotic

A) is a healthy sign

B) is a bad sign

C) is a sign that your life has gone wrong

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Language focus

 

What's the scrambled word?

 

a general piplerinc

a single skta

a wise coihce

an absurd iead

an elusive tnghi

multiple srleo

flawless ufocs

 

Follow each verb with a likely object

 

explore a _____________

investigate a _____________

retrieve a _____________

complete a _____________

verify a _____________

supervise a _____________

consider a _____________

sustain a _____________

 

 

 


Listen out for these adverb + adjective collocations:



H____ly efficient
c_______ly inefficient
e________ly clear
o______ly efficient
f__ l____ efficient
m_______ly efficient
m_______ly w___ equipped
l__ than c______ly o_______l performance
p_____ly optimal

 

 

Discussion

 



General questions - discuss what you heard.

1. Why is a human less efficient than a sports car?

2. What's easiest way to increase efficiency?

3. What is the brain designed to do?

4. What is the price we pay for being generalists?

5. Why do we sometimes feel depressed at the end of the day?

6. What is the cost of focusing on one thing to the exclusion of all others?

7. Why is work-life balance impossible?



Unfortunately

highly

so

exceptionally

optimally

completely

exclusively

moderately

probably

without mistakes

maximally

perfectly

less

at once

only 

very

very

well


 

 

Listen and add the adverbs where you hear them

 

This is the Audi R8; it's a (1) ________ efficient and compelling car; its engine produces an astonishing 199 kW at 6,500 rpm, and a torque of 330 Nm at 4000 rpm.

Now part of the reason that it's (2) _______ efficient, and part of what makes us human beings comparatively inefficient, is that this car has (3) ________ one goal, and that goal is (4) __________ clear: it has to go (5) _________ fast down tarmac roads.

As a general principle, no machine can be (6) ___________ efficient at more than one thing. A robot that has to both climb stairs and make pancakes will be far less efficient than two distinct machines, each of which can focus (7) __________ on a single task. The more limited the goals, the higher one’s chances efficiency.

Now, unlike the Audi sports car, our brains are not designed or evolved to be (8) __________ efficient at any one thing. This amazing cognitive and emotional machine is a profound generalist; it comes (9) ___________ well equipped for a huge range of possible activities: to write a novel, spearfish, bring up a child, drive very fast Fifth Avenue, sit in a high-rise office writing reports, lie in a hut in New Guinea, marry, plot an assassination, live in an ice cave, go into politics, stay single, or expand a small business into the Asia market.

Now the price we pay for being generalists is that we'll be (10) _________ good at any one of the many activities we perform than someone who did only one thing their whole life long. We might not be the (11) _________ best at inflating party balloons, the house will be a bit dirty, we might be a bit late for the meeting, we'll not be perfect, patient, and interesting dinner companions, we'll mess up the public presentation again, someone will (12) __________ be better than we are at helping a child to paint.

This might be quite depressing moments, perhaps late at night as we look back across the day, but before we get too sad, we should realize that our less than (13) _________ optimal performance is down to one very understandable thing: that we've chosen breadth and variety over total focus and narrow perfection, and that's a very wise choice. Focusing on one thing to the exclusion of all others has its costs as anyone who's ever spoken to an athlete who trains 10 hours a day tends to find out.

There's a cost to being the human equivalent to the sports car.

(14) ___________, our society has set up an absurd idea: that it will be possible to do many things and do them all completely (15) _________. That's why we hear so much talk about an elusive thing called: "work-life balance". A (16) ________ optimal career and a perfectly optimal home life.

This is a mad idea!

Work-life balance is impossible because everything worth fighting for unbalances your life. We're not going to be (17) _________ the ideal domestic chef, child carer, and CEO. If we're strung out across multiple roles, all will suffer, but that's okay.

That you're doing too much and none of it (18) ___________ isn't a sign that your life has gone wrong, it's a sign of a very wise and understandable position: that you've opted for imperfect variety over flawless focus.

 

Language focus: building flexibility and expanding vocabulary range


 Exploring adverbs

What adjective might follow these adverbs?

undeniably
elegantly
profoundly
excessively
weirdly
lovingly
tightly


What do all of these adverbs have in common?

  1. briskly
  2. gradually
  3. hastily
  4. hurriedly
  5. immediately
  6. instantly
  7. promptly
  8. quickly
  9. rapidly
  10. slowly
  11. speedily
  12. swiftly

And these?

  1. audibly
  2. deafeningly
  3. ear-splittingly
  4. faintly
  5. loudly
  6. noiselessly
  7. noisily
  8. quietly
  9. silently
  10. softly
  11. soundlessly
  12. thunderously

And these?

  1. daily
  2. eventually
  3. finally
  4. frequently
  5. generally
  6. hourly
  7. rarely
  8. regularly
  9. seldom
  10. soon


She spoke

She wept

She walked

She laughed

She stumbled

She squeezed my hand

She stood up

She looked around

She whispered


 


1.     accidentally

2.     awkwardly

3.     blindly

4.     crazily

5.     cruelly

6.     defiantly

7.     deliberately

8.     doubtfully

9.     dramatically

10.                        excitedly

11.                        mysteriously

12.                        nervously

13.                        seriously

14.                        solemnly

15.                        unexpectedly

16.                        wildly


 

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Conversation in A/B Pairs

A

  1. Have you ever accidentally sent a message or email to the wrong person? What happened?

  2. When was the last time you felt awkwardly silent in a conversation? What made the situation uncomfortable?

  3. Do you think people sometimes follow trends blindly? Can you give an example?

  4. What is the most crazily spontaneous thing you have ever done?

  5. Why do you think some people speak cruelly to others online? How can this problem be reduced?


B

  1. Have you ever deliberately ignored someone’s message or call? Why did you do it?

  2. When was the last time you excitedly told someone some good news? What was it about?

  3. Can you describe a time when you nervously waited for an important result or decision?

  4. Has anything good ever happened to you unexpectedly? What was the situation?

  5. When do you think people should seriously think about changing their lifestyle or habits?



Is each adverb more likely to be used with a verb or an adjective?

totally
suddenly
swiftly
extremely


Which of these adverbs would usually be used to modify a whole sentence?

unfortunately
somewhat
most of the time
afterwards
on the whole
genuinely
delicately
wrongly
mind you
sweetly