Friday, June 27, 2025

Talking

 


Do you enjoy talking in English?









What would help you get better at talking in English?







Do you sometimes talk too much?







Do you sometimes talk too little?








Who do you like talking to most in the whole world?







Do you like talking to strangers?


















Synonyms of "talk"





chat
speak
tell
discuss
converse
gossip


1. I love calling my friends back at home to catch up on all the latest ______
2. He is a quiet person and doesn't _____ much.
3. Are you a good at ____ing jokes?
4. Everyone in the cafe is _____ing loudly.
5. I need to _______ my future with my boss.
6. She is very good at French - she can ______ quite naturally.







Conversation skills

 

Are you a natural talker?

Do you talk too much?

Do you like talking to new people?


match

 

1. you can't finish a conversation well

2. You tell long boring stories

3. you talk for too long

4. you can't tell a good story

5. you have nothing in common with anyone

6. you say things at the wrong moment

 

A) Always searching for anecdotes (stories about things that happened to you)

B) prolonging a conversation unnecessarily

C) struggling to find common interests

D) lacking storytelling confidence

E) mis-timing your entrance

F) You end the conversation at the wrong moment

 

Rank the following from easiest to hardest: 1-6

___ To start a conversation
___ To finish a conversation
___ To change topic in a conversation
___ To get the other person to contribute to a conversation
___ To get the other person to stop talking for a moment
___ To disagree without offending the other person/people

 

When was the last time you talked and talked and talked with someone?

Where do you talk more?

in the classroom

in the car

in the train

in a cafe

online

What would you most enjoy talking about?

a famous painting      cats      your house     the weather       politics      your culture      sports     travel     yourself        nightlife        new foods you haven't tried              your feelings        music       feelings      people          work         nature

 

Here are some expressions with the word "talk" - can you guess what they mean?

 

sweet talk

small talk

sleep talk

straight talk

sales talk

to talk shop

to talk truth

to talk rubbish

to talk sth over

to talk yourself out

 


I once asked a Japanese student what she missed most from Japan. She said "talking without speaking". 

 

What do you think she meant?



The following pictures represent idioms literally

Image result for lip service idiom

Lip service

The government only pays lip service to the idea of improving the living standards of the poor.










Related image

A slip of the tongue


"Be careful what you say to the police - a slip of the tongue could get us all put in jail."




Try these  out - there's no correct answer

She said


"                  ", she answered.
"                  ", she responded.
"                  ", she replied.
"                  ", she retorted.
"                  ", she called.
"                  ", she explained.
"                  ", she laughed.
"                  ", she screamed.
"                  ", she shouted.
"                  ", she admitted.
"                  ", she lied.
"                  ", she whispered.
"                  ", she sobbed.
"                  ", she hissed.
"                  ", she apologised.



Hey there!
You're wrong about that
No thanks
Go away!
I can't go on!
I love you
I hate you
I'm sorry, it's all my fault
It is very late and I am too tire to discuss this
Only an idiot would say that
I'm depressed
I suppose you're right
stop it at once
I'll be there in a minute
I'm just not ready for this level of commitment





What is she actually saying to him?


She: Hey - are golfing today? It's the second time this week.
He: But you said it was fine?
She: It is fine. It's perfectly fine.






What does she mean?

She: Are you wearing that?

She: Hey do you want to get some coffee?

She: I'll be ready in a minute.

She: Do you think she's pretty?






What does he mean?

He: Hey - mind if I catch a movie with the guys?

He: Wow - you're beautiful.

He: I'm fine. Really. Stop looking at me.









Phrases used

It's the second time this week!
But you said it was fine.
It is fine. It's perfectly fine.
Well, you're in luck.
Let me just check with my wife.
Mind if I go?
If that's what you want to do.
You're in luck.
On second thought
Now that's more like it





Synonyms of "talk"


chat

speak

tell

discuss

converse

gossip


 

1. I love calling my friends back at home to catch up on all the latest ______

2. He is a quiet person and doesn't _____ much.

3. Are you a good at ____ing jokes?

4. Everyone in the cafe is _____ing loudly.

5. I need to _______ my future with my boss.

6. She is very good at French - she can ______ quite naturally.

 

 

Rank the following from easiest to hardest: 1-6

___ To start a conversation
___ To finish a conversation
___ To change topic in a conversation
___ To get the other person to contribute to a conversation
___ To get the other person to stop talking for a moment
___ To disagree without offending the other person/people

 

 

When was the last time you talked and talked and talked with someone?


Where do you talk more?


in the classroom

in the car

in the train

in a cafe

online

in the kitchen



 

What would you most enjoy talking about?


a famous painting     

cats     

your house   

 the weather       

politics     

your culture     

sports    

travel     

yourself       

nightlife       

new foods you haven't tried             

 your feelings       

music      

feelings     

people         

 work        

nature


 

Here are some expressions with the word "talk" - can you guess what they mean?


 sweet talk

small talk

sleep talk

straight talk

sales talk

to talk truth

to talk rubbish

to talk sth over 



I once asked a Japanese student what she missed most from Japan. She said "talking without speaking". 

 What do you think she meant?

 

Video – The Manslator

What is she actually saying to him?

She: Hey - are golfing today? It's the second time this week.

He: But you said it was fine?

She: It is fine. It's perfectly fine.

 

What does she mean?

She: Are you wearing that?

She: Hey do you want to get some coffee?

She: I'll be ready in a minute.

She: Do you think she's pretty?

 

What does he mean?

He: Hey - mind if I catch a movie with the guys?

He: Wow - you're beautiful.

He: I'm fine. Really. Stop looking at me.

 

Phrases used


It's the second time this week!

But you said it was fine.

It is fine. It's perfectly fine.

Well, you're in luck.

Let me just check with my wife.

Mind if I go?

If that's what you want to do.

You're in luck.

On second thought

Now that's more like it


 








Do you like getting or giving advice?










Which things to do like to get advice about?

health
love life
shopping
restaurants
family matters
travel ideas
friendship
school
career
books to read
films or TV shows to see
money matters

Where do you get advice? - books, friends, family, TV, online...









Do you need advice on anything at the moment?










Has anyone ever given you some really bad advice?










Has anyone ever given you some good advice?









What's the difference?

We stopped to talk.                  We stopped talking.


















I once asked a Japanese student what she missed most from Japan. She said "talking without speaking". 

What do you think she meant?













Can you think of a better way to say this?


How was you're weekend?
It was good.


How's your soup?
Good.

Did you enjoy that class.
No


That's a nice shirt.
Thanks.

What do you think about Joanna?
She's nice.


How are you feeling after she spoke to you that way.
Bad.


Tell me about you'r family?
They are nice.


What are your plans this weekend?
I don't know




Recreate this simple story. You can't use nice good, big , or bad, and you can't repeat yourself.


Last weekend I performed with my band at a book launch. Lots of nice people came and the room was big and really nice. It felt good to play to a big crowd of nice people. The listened to the music good. It made me feel good about my music, which was nice. I'm quite bad at feeling good in crowds though. It doesn't feel good, even though I try to be nice. I just always somehow feel bad, you know? Anyway, my girlfriend was really nice and videoed our performance. I expected it to sound bad, but when I watched it it sounded pretty good. That's nice.



Big talk








Are you a fast talker?














Do you mind being interrupted?























Do you tend to talk directly or indirectly about your feelings?















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